When presented with a challenging opportunity at work or at home, it’s easy to immediately dismiss it and say “no.” Before you do this – you may want to think on it. How can you benefit or help another if you say “yes” instead? Marinate on that for a while. Many times a yes might be your best option.
“If someone offers you an amazing opportunity
and you are not sure you can do it, say yes.
Then learn how to do it later.” – Richard Branson
When someone gives you the option of saying yes, they believe you can achieve something.The word “yes” instantly communicates a message of “Don’t worry, I am confident in myself.” These moments of decision can include a new career prospect, an opportunity to step up at work, a surprise request from a friend, or any type of unfamiliar challenge. Saying yes opens the door to explore opportunities and ways to impact others in a positive way.
Here’s an important thing to remember about the saying yes. When you say yes to a possible opportunity, it doesn’t have to be entirely on the other individuals terms. People respond well to yes, even when you’re using it conditionally. This positive response allows you to qualify your needs in a respectful way without rejecting the opportunity. Learning how to say yes in a responsible and appropriate manner can be as easy these examples:
• Yes, I would love to do the project for you, however, this task will require an additional $2,000 for your project plans.
• Yes, the class reunion sounds like a lot of fun, I look forward to seeing everyone but have limited time available for help in planning.
• Yes, that sounds like a good idea, I just would like to go over some details where I have a few concerns.
By saying yes, we invite possibility into our lives and the ability to learn what we are capable of accomplishing. Take the opportunity as a compliment and harness the confidence other people have in you, while still setting healthy boundaries.
